Teachings of daily life – life at its best and worst

It happened to be the controversy between the heart and brain. I always think about things that stays with me forever and gives a permanent impact. It’s that thing or nothing. That’s how I grew up. All this started right from the first dress I was allowed to choose. From the first dress I chose to the job I chose to be I made all it happened with my knowledge. I might have chosen the path which I’m not interested in rather than choosing the favorite and desired path. But even though I travel in the path I didn’t desire, I have the same old love for the path I desired close to heart. And I give myself for that, trying hard, working out things, executing it, then fail, and again fail… thinking someday, somehow I’ll be there in the path I always wanted to be.

Exercise and workout till you get there for the fight. It’s not that I am calm waiting for the things to happen in my life, it’s just that I work till I get there in my way. It is just from that film “Rab ne bana de Jodi” I learnt this lesson “Travel in your mind and act where you gotta go, once and for all you’ll be there meeting you with the thing you wanted you to be” from the line

“We’re travelling in the love lane, down the street we’ll meet again”

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I never felt bad for the tough days, they never mattered me, it was a real fun dealing with them. But I am always concerned about the unproductive days. The days I wanted to feel like worth having rather than regretting. A day with no regret is a successful day, a day wasted out of interest is like a day with no inner light.

Since, ups and downs are what the path are made of, being whiny will do no good. But trying to get a hype in the day is eventually necessary. The day started all with fun, but later it went down a drowsy part with no shown interest. And the buzz started when I realized and started to write this post. I postponed the work I gotta do because having no interest and doing a thing will only spoil the food. I chose its better tasty being late, than bitter being soon.

Still all things in life are connected with priorities, you can’t wait till the waves hit your shelter, when its a wave hitting your shadow is fine. There is no use in doing things when the thing matters nothing to you. Put the soul’s eternity even in the smallest work you do. At the end you’ll be proud that its your work.

At the same, don’t expect for the credits and don’t fall for the credits others give you. It might ruin the things you are up to. Never take the success to your head, your head will start to weigh more and at last you loose your balance – you might tremble or fall with the huge thud.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The inner voice tells you what you want – go for it. No matter what because that is the way you live!

OMG! Did I really grow up? Am I really becoming responsible day by day? I never a felt a difference within myself! But things are coming too fast my way. Should I be happy? amazed? proud? partying? treating? boasting? I am going with none. I am not getting this still, ‘Am I fully ready for this? Am I the person for that position?’ Sometimes these questions on self-analyzing might ruin your mind and might make you annoyed.

But tell yourself…

This doesn’t mean I am lacking self-confidence. My way of satisfying with things is different. We can’t just be satisfied with things the world mark at us, as far as I know I rate my own self. Positive or Negative? Good or Bad? I am there to judge me. After all, judging self is a million time better than judging others. Put the time you have to judge yourself rather than wasting it on others.

But be always afraid of not having enemies/people getting on your nerves/rivals/people who gossip. It is dangerous if you don’t have any of the above. You may think your life is peaceful with no combatants or may live in a virtual world where you think you top the show but sadly there are no players playing with you in the ground.

That is where the entire life sucks to drag you down to the first phase of failure. The worst part is you have no idea that you’re silently being pulled down.

You might be the one who will not be annoyed by the irritants but by their silence.  

You might be the one who will not be disturbed by the discrimination but become mad by the boasts on you.

You might be the one who will not be tired of the failures but by the success in the very first attempt.

You might be the one who is okay with not socializing but the one who is disgusted by the group gossiping.  

You might be the one who is ready to stay single but refuse to go on with the relationship that has no respect for you though you still long for it.

You might be the one who is ready to die soon by taking adventure than living with no life for years and years.

You may be the one who is ready to lose people but not willing to give away your privacy at any cost.

Take time to be you, to have what you want, to love what you do, to be the one who you really wanna be. Never be carried away by appreciations, you know where you stand and where you wanna be. After all life is for living in your own way. Just because someone says you are wrong, doesn’t mean you really are. Just because you do it, doesn’t mean you did it right.

Ask you in the inner soul that instincts that inner voice… think about it… consult with your logical brain… do it if you still think you should. Because that is what you wanted to do and that is what you think is right!

To those rude people is my gratitude!

Totally love what I did today. The work of Management is really getting my likes day by day. Even this moment I’m writing is a scenic moment, when people are busy working at things which they may use for future or not. I, sitting here with comfort, wearing that virtual coolers that chills me up and keeps me cool always, who may or mayn’t have any work to do sometimes but still eager to use each minute I spend in a way I feel it worth, not here for money, not here for career, not here for people, not here for love, not here for fun, not here for any big cause but just to get into adventure and explore the new experience.

Yes! I was that loud mouth, who always used to say, ‘No way I’m going for work. I am not here to work for some foreign agent.’ Of course yes, I still go with the same. If you think you’re working and updating yourself for the development of your career in the company, there would be a possibility you forever be an employee of some company. The moment you think and also feel you are updating and experiencing things for the sake of yourself and your passion, Note it “Someday too close you’ll be someone whom you desire the most.”

There is none better than me and I’m better than none, this is the reality of life. The person who wants to become himself/herself will make people think that they want to become someone like them.

What if Billgates wanted to become Sachin Tendulkar??? It is something like oil and water. A total non-sync. No doubt if Ravi Varma wanted to become Michelangelo, the world would have missed a wonderful aesthetic painter of Indian social causes. All those who wanted to become someone they’re not is having a good life to talk about others’ and those who wanted to be them self in every aspect of life is having a beautiful life and a life for others to talk about and desire about.

A small difference that makes a drastic change. Here, you do all necessary stuffs but remain hidden and be happy by seeing others happy. You still learn from the scratch. The literal corporate stuffs, the extra flavors called favors for the employees, the cunning reasons hidden doing certain stuffs, plannings behind doing a single simple thing… sometimes I get bored, sometimes left out, sometimes amazed, sometimes energetic… starting to love it, the way I’m learning things from the scratch.

It’s not my way to plan for things earlier, it’s always the last moment that “let’s face it maniac”, I am. And now, I couldn’t believe that I am planning for a single event for weeks remembering the best outcomes of my on the spot events and hosting. Though, that is the best experience I could have had so far, this is also interesting. The best part is being a silent admirer of things around and things in.

Thanks to the people who pushed me to be myself, thanks for the difficulties, thanks for those criticisms, thanks for showing that atrocities, without these I’m no where here and now.

 

Pleasure ‘n’ Joy

​Be sure of one thing. Nobody is going to stay with you long. You have to takecare of your own. Be an independent women. Face the problem and overcome it. You might make it big but still you learn from it. You come to know about people, you come to know about your situation..you yourself. Things and people are not found to be permanent,its quite temporary.

Joy is priceless, Pleasure is measured..

The pain of missing happiness is cruel but its beautiful. 

Rage of women!

​What I hate about society is the extra care that is shown to a girl than a boy. I personally think that it is the mere reason for inequality in thoughts on a boy and a girl! 

Recently I read this in a social media posted by a close friend of mine. It was actually on Men’s day. It says…

“The word huMANity itself have MAN in it, which means boys have more humanity than girls.” I was on the verge of cracking to laugh. There was also an example that was given saying… I had seen many guys giving their own space for elderly in a bus but have never seen a girl doing so. I couldn’t help myself laughing. 

This thing is totally related to the attitude and mind of the person. How can someone relate it only to guys?

It was also saying that “Boys are better than girls”. 

I was shocked and literally wanted to ask him in public that “where did all your humanity thoughts go when there was a serious issues of nirbhaya, acid attack, rape, molestation, murder…of a girl happened. Where did your so called huMANity of mens go? You people rented it?”

When a guy talk about men’s superiority, he is called a MAN.

When a woman talks about her rights and current status of women, she is called FEMINIST, a bitch, whore, slut…

I don’t understand…

Where did the equality run?

The way I chose

I once tried so hard to prove that I am a good person. I never knew I won or lost, was not interested in knowing it later. Now, I stopped proving myself to those who have no value in my life and started living my own with all my heart. And now understood, leading a successful life will prove the whole world who you are. The life you chose to have. 

Choosing a different lane will first discriminate you, and later you’ll know with all your heart that you were right to go right. 

Uncertain complications – pointless relationships

You might have none with you when you struggled

You might have  had none while you succeeded

In between sweet and bitter, don’t be filled with temporary people.

You are given a life of human existence to accomplish a mission

Once you are up to it, you’re gone.

Why complicate yourself with the pleasures instead of the joy?relationshp