The inner voice tells you what you want – go for it. No matter what because that is the way you live!

OMG! Did I really grow up? Am I really becoming responsible day by day? I never a felt a difference within myself! But things are coming too fast my way. Should I be happy? amazed? proud? partying? treating? boasting? I am going with none. I am not getting this still, ‘Am I fully ready for this? Am I the person for that position?’ Sometimes these questions on self-analyzing might ruin your mind and might make you annoyed.

But tell yourself…

This doesn’t mean I am lacking self-confidence. My way of satisfying with things is different. We can’t just be satisfied with things the world mark at us, as far as I know I rate my own self. Positive or Negative? Good or Bad? I am there to judge me. After all, judging self is a million time better than judging others. Put the time you have to judge yourself rather than wasting it on others.

But be always afraid of not having enemies/people getting on your nerves/rivals/people who gossip. It is dangerous if you don’t have any of the above. You may think your life is peaceful with no combatants or may live in a virtual world where you think you top the show but sadly there are no players playing with you in the ground.

That is where the entire life sucks to drag you down to the first phase of failure. The worst part is you have no idea that you’re silently being pulled down.

You might be the one who will not be annoyed by the irritants but by their silence.  

You might be the one who will not be disturbed by the discrimination but become mad by the boasts on you.

You might be the one who will not be tired of the failures but by the success in the very first attempt.

You might be the one who is okay with not socializing but the one who is disgusted by the group gossiping.  

You might be the one who is ready to stay single but refuse to go on with the relationship that has no respect for you though you still long for it.

You might be the one who is ready to die soon by taking adventure than living with no life for years and years.

You may be the one who is ready to lose people but not willing to give away your privacy at any cost.

Take time to be you, to have what you want, to love what you do, to be the one who you really wanna be. Never be carried away by appreciations, you know where you stand and where you wanna be. After all life is for living in your own way. Just because someone says you are wrong, doesn’t mean you really are. Just because you do it, doesn’t mean you did it right.

Ask you in the inner soul that instincts that inner voice… think about it… consult with your logical brain… do it if you still think you should. Because that is what you wanted to do and that is what you think is right!

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Rage of women!

​What I hate about society is the extra care that is shown to a girl than a boy. I personally think that it is the mere reason for inequality in thoughts on a boy and a girl! 

Recently I read this in a social media posted by a close friend of mine. It was actually on Men’s day. It says…

“The word huMANity itself have MAN in it, which means boys have more humanity than girls.” I was on the verge of cracking to laugh. There was also an example that was given saying… I had seen many guys giving their own space for elderly in a bus but have never seen a girl doing so. I couldn’t help myself laughing. 

This thing is totally related to the attitude and mind of the person. How can someone relate it only to guys?

It was also saying that “Boys are better than girls”. 

I was shocked and literally wanted to ask him in public that “where did all your humanity thoughts go when there was a serious issues of nirbhaya, acid attack, rape, molestation, murder…of a girl happened. Where did your so called huMANity of mens go? You people rented it?”

When a guy talk about men’s superiority, he is called a MAN.

When a woman talks about her rights and current status of women, she is called FEMINIST, a bitch, whore, slut…

I don’t understand…

Where did the equality run?