Untie your mind, heart and soul – cut through the darkness B)

Be random, Be crazy.

Be the best you.

Lend a hand, you never fade.

Have your style when it worth for while.

Follow your heart, make your path.

Fear not, to fail.

Rejuvenate instantly when you collapse.

Be amazingly great for yourself, not for the world.

Stay tuned and explore self.

Persevere till the end.

Refuse to quit.

Make your own fears fear.

Get lost in the right.

Your attitude when doomed will count.

Be the one with mind, the one with attitude, the one of class.

Yes! Be amazingly great for yourself.

Unwrap the magic spark.

Illuminate the blaze of imagination.

                      “Untie the mind.

                       Untie the heart.

                       Untie the soul.

             Cut through the darkness.”

Tell the world…

I’m the son/daughter of guts.”

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To those rude people is my gratitude!

Totally love what I did today. The work of Management is really getting my likes day by day. Even this moment I’m writing is a scenic moment, when people are busy working at things which they may use for future or not. I, sitting here with comfort, wearing that virtual coolers that chills me up and keeps me cool always, who may or mayn’t have any work to do sometimes but still eager to use each minute I spend in a way I feel it worth, not here for money, not here for career, not here for people, not here for love, not here for fun, not here for any big cause but just to get into adventure and explore the new experience.

Yes! I was that loud mouth, who always used to say, ‘No way I’m going for work. I am not here to work for some foreign agent.’ Of course yes, I still go with the same. If you think you’re working and updating yourself for the development of your career in the company, there would be a possibility you forever be an employee of some company. The moment you think and also feel you are updating and experiencing things for the sake of yourself and your passion, Note it “Someday too close you’ll be someone whom you desire the most.”

There is none better than me and I’m better than none, this is the reality of life. The person who wants to become himself/herself will make people think that they want to become someone like them.

What if Billgates wanted to become Sachin Tendulkar??? It is something like oil and water. A total non-sync. No doubt if Ravi Varma wanted to become Michelangelo, the world would have missed a wonderful aesthetic painter of Indian social causes. All those who wanted to become someone they’re not is having a good life to talk about others’ and those who wanted to be them self in every aspect of life is having a beautiful life and a life for others to talk about and desire about.

A small difference that makes a drastic change. Here, you do all necessary stuffs but remain hidden and be happy by seeing others happy. You still learn from the scratch. The literal corporate stuffs, the extra flavors called favors for the employees, the cunning reasons hidden doing certain stuffs, plannings behind doing a single simple thing… sometimes I get bored, sometimes left out, sometimes amazed, sometimes energetic… starting to love it, the way I’m learning things from the scratch.

It’s not my way to plan for things earlier, it’s always the last moment that “let’s face it maniac”, I am. And now, I couldn’t believe that I am planning for a single event for weeks remembering the best outcomes of my on the spot events and hosting. Though, that is the best experience I could have had so far, this is also interesting. The best part is being a silent admirer of things around and things in.

Thanks to the people who pushed me to be myself, thanks for the difficulties, thanks for those criticisms, thanks for showing that atrocities, without these I’m no where here and now.

 

The way I chose

I once tried so hard to prove that I am a good person. I never knew I won or lost, was not interested in knowing it later. Now, I stopped proving myself to those who have no value in my life and started living my own with all my heart. And now understood, leading a successful life will prove the whole world who you are. The life you chose to have. 

Choosing a different lane will first discriminate you, and later you’ll know with all your heart that you were right to go right. 

Dear lady! Your time has come. There exists no reason for your birth if you don’t step over the discrimination! Wake up now :)

Everybody and everything in the universe is judged by some means. The most ugliest judgement I have heard so far, a girl being often judged by her appearance. Whatever she gains or whatever she lost irrespective of any other mean she is discriminated by her looks. No matter whether she is dark or fair, lean or fat, attractive or not, structured or no, if she succeeds truly with no guilt it is through her own talent, work and sweat. No man or woman in the world have the rights to talk rubbish about another person’s success or failure.

This was a personal incident that happened to me few days back. I attended a campus recruitment and got selected though I had no interest in technical stuffs. My interviewer was a woman, she asked me a dozen of technical questions to which I had no answer or answered in my worst way, imposing I have no interest in it. She being an experienced HR found me good in management stuffs and started conversing with me about it. I, who was interested in the way she took the interview really did answered thing in my own true way and got no carried away. Finally, after an hour of final interview I got selected as an management trainee that first occurred in the history of the company. I, with no guilt and with all my heart know that I deserved it and thanked the company for opening a new opportunity for young talents and minds.

But as a way of throwing all the efforts into the bin, few used the foul phrases saying “I told you, your appearance would get you a job” which never did bring me down but got myself into the wrath in the thoughts of the society. As the people needed some guidance about it, I spent a minute explaining them, ‘A woman with true spirit, attitude and desire will not be happy by the words and neither do I’, I told them. And further went a step saying ‘My interviewer was a woman’. The appreciable reply I got was ‘ She might had been paid by any male in the organization to get you selected.’ This corrupted mind will never take you far I thought and left the place looking the person incorrigibly.

This is just a small incident that happened to me and I took this as an arena to expose it to the world. Even the woman in the highest position is being discriminated by another women or men in her surrounding and been made to deteriorate the will she has because for a woman her respect is everything and she is most concerned about what the society might think of her, and prefers staying in a cubicle rather than going out and finding herself and finally her dream and self-respect is been killed.

Its time to wake up women. Its real time!

There exists no reason to your life, if you just prefer staying in a cubicle. Remember the embarrassments you face are only making you strong, they never drag you down.

So, remember my dear lady, the time has come to pull your socks up!

Listen to your inner-heart and to no morons!

Wake up! Let every dawn be your day.

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Negotiation: might favour you when you are at your best!

There was a time when people where just judging and neglecting me just because i was different and unique. I wondered for the reason and started to analyze myself for the reason. I attempted to change myself for those people who can’t even recognize me with what I am. Later, after months I realized… my recognition is my attitude and character and if I change it people are going to dump me no where for ‘I would lose my identity.’

Sometimes when you insult someone it might badly hurt them and does make them develop a negative thoughts on you… but years after it might damn badly help them and might become a reason for their success.. Things that is simple and small today may take a tremendous growth tomorrow.

“Negotiation might cost you and favor you with the best sometimes.”