You can’t be right all the time. For you to be right later, you may want to take a wrong decision not intentionally may be to obtain the best lesson of life and love. That mistake should only make you strong and must never make you feel down. See to that you overrule it.
I once tried so hard to prove that I am a good person. I never knew I won or lost, was not interested in knowing it later. Now, I stopped proving myself to those who have no value in my life and started living my own with all my heart. And now understood, leading a successful life will prove the whole world who you are. The life you chose to have.
Choosing a different lane will first discriminate you, and later you’ll know with all your heart that you were right to go right.
Everybody and everything in the universe is judged by some means. The most ugliest judgement I have heard so far, a girl being often judged by her appearance. Whatever she gains or whatever she lost irrespective of any other mean she is discriminated by her looks. No matter whether she is dark or fair, lean or fat, attractive or not, structured or no, if she succeeds truly with no guilt it is through her own talent, work and sweat. No man or woman in the world have the rights to talk rubbish about another person’s success or failure.
This was a personal incident that happened to me few days back. I attended a campus recruitment and got selected though I had no interest in technical stuffs. My interviewer was a woman, she asked me a dozen of technical questions to which I had no answer or answered in my worst way, imposing I have no interest in it. She being an experienced HR found me good in management stuffs and started conversing with me about it. I, who was interested in the way she took the interview really did answered thing in my own true way and got no carried away. Finally, after an hour of final interview I got selected as an management trainee that first occurred in the history of the company. I, with no guilt and with all my heart know that I deserved it and thanked the company for opening a new opportunity for young talents and minds.
But as a way of throwing all the efforts into the bin, few used the foul phrases saying “I told you, your appearance would get you a job” which never did bring me down but got myself into the wrath in the thoughts of the society. As the people needed some guidance about it, I spent a minute explaining them, ‘A woman with true spirit, attitude and desire will not be happy by the words and neither do I’, I told them. And further went a step saying ‘My interviewer was a woman’. The appreciable reply I got was ‘ She might had been paid by any male in the organization to get you selected.’ This corrupted mind will never take you far I thought and left the place looking the person incorrigibly.
This is just a small incident that happened to me and I took this as an arena to expose it to the world. Even the woman in the highest position is being discriminated by another women or men in her surrounding and been made to deteriorate the will she has because for a woman her respect is everything and she is most concerned about what the society might think of her, and prefers staying in a cubicle rather than going out and finding herself and finally her dream and self-respect is been killed.
Its time to wake up women. Its real time!
There exists no reason to your life, if you just prefer staying in a cubicle. Remember the embarrassments you face are only making you strong, they never drag you down.
So, remember my dear lady, the time has come to pull your socks up!
Listen to your inner-heart and to no morons!
Wake up! Let every dawn be your day.
Turn around!
The world is not just the 90 degree you can see. Its spread over 360 degree
. So look around!
Look at the world! Look at the people! Look out for the things around you!
Grab what they are trying to convey you!
There exists an reason and there lies the meaning for every single thing and every single reason on earth.
I stepped on the first day of my professional career 23 days back. The workplace was beautifully decorated with flying colors of ribbons shaking its whole body just merely like the gorgeous belly dancers. The Christmas bells at the end of the ribbon adding beauty to the arena. And the balloons tied at the corner of each cabin. The phrases that was painted on the balloon really made many senses. Three balloons representing the tri-color of the national flag comprises of the different phrases on each tied all over the place. On a green balloon the words “OUR COUNTRY” was written. Days passed the green balloon fell into my space. I used to look at it everyday before I start my work for no reason(just because I loved seeing it).
Due to some personal reasons I couldn’t make to office for a week.
After a week when I reached and finally settled down after all chit-chats about all the routines in the past week, I suddenly noticed the green balloon shrink-ed because of the leakage of the air molecules inside it(it still lies in my space).
There came a deep silence in my mind and thoughts were shut down for a minute. And then rouse all the talks of the mind and heart.
India – such a tremendous beauty with no bounds for its wealth, appearance and culture now facing a serious threat by the citizens it protects that shrinks the vast arena into a simple small cubicle in all aspects is a hurt, is a shame, is a sin. People of the country irrespective of the gender, culture, caste, religion, race joined together will make the place will make the world worth living. Depleting the respect of the ‘Mother Nation’ with chaos and riots will never do something grateful- it simply imposes on the ‘worst thing a child could do to a Mother’.
”OUR COUNTRY” – a simple phrase really did made a change in me.
We together will sure make a change in ME and YOU and moreover US.
There are people you envy at certain period of life. A woman or a man of the same insight of life as yours and they possessing what you desire at the earliest stage than you- will surely make you envy them. Where exists me, not yet ready for the real journey of the birth. Where exists me, Sitting in a compact space, uncertain about the time my blaze of desires might burst, envying people who are crazy my way, waiting for my time to hunt the feast of life. Yes! A cubicle is what I say when comparing the unwrapped bounded beauty. The exotically decorated cubicle is no match to the drought-ed land or the flooded town.The more you are away from the destiny you desire the most, the more you are tempted and mesmerized by it. The more it tempts you to go for it similar to two little hetero-souls experiencing the fire of youth, separated.
You might have none with you when you struggled
You might have had none while you succeeded
In between sweet and bitter, don’t be filled with temporary people.
You are given a life of human existence to accomplish a mission
Once you are up to it, you’re gone.
Why complicate yourself with the pleasures instead of the joy?
Seeing injustice yu may loose yur temper, yur head rises, teeth clutches, hand bears the total power to be quite. Wen yu rise yu have thousands around yu to stop n lock u up. But it takes courage to break it open n it takes lot more courage to trust in yurslf.
Bearing things doesn’t mean I’m incapable.. I am waiting fr my tym with total braveness. I see the govt corrupted with money, the wrld corrupted with power n the people corrupted with uncivilised thots n no true knowledge about the birth n reason for it.
If some gets to know the answer or try finding it, the entirety fyts each to dump it down.
Its never accepted to remain quite. Only when yu r outspoken, yu r focused..focused to find fault n gossip. When yu thnk within the wrld yu r dragged inside it…
Think beyond the universe, think inside the blackhole, count the stars, failure doesn’t matter, even aftr failures trusting yurslf, means the world…..
Losing yourself into the uncertainties in things and people – people start losing interest in people as like they start losing interest in things. One such criteria where most call it uncertainty and few(very few) call it a Wonder.
Being wise – doesn’t judge you. Being rough- doesn’t matters you. Being attitudinal – never De-rates or deteriorate you. Unlike the wave that never crossed its marine. Unlike the bird that never reached the horizon. Unlike the air that closed inside a container.
Unlike all the singles, be the matrix collision of different combinations. Be the first discoverer of your own flame. Let the flame luster into the darkness of your journey. Trigger the incandescence within, with all the cheap shots, disgraces and the abuses. Let the blaze hold your heart, body and soul. Find your best rival in you.
“Never be afraid of the Uncertainties, and dare to call it a WONDER!”
None can be you.. Nobody replaces you… No matter what don’t feel down…. keep your chin up….. and continue your voyage
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