Everybody and everything in the universe is judged by some means. The most ugliest judgement I have heard so far, a girl being often judged by her appearance. Whatever she gains or whatever she lost irrespective of any other mean she is discriminated by her looks. No matter whether she is dark or fair, lean or fat, attractive or not, structured or no, if she succeeds truly with no guilt it is through her own talent, work and sweat. No man or woman in the world have the rights to talk rubbish about another person’s success or failure.
This was a personal incident that happened to me few days back. I attended a campus recruitment and got selected though I had no interest in technical stuffs. My interviewer was a woman, she asked me a dozen of technical questions to which I had no answer or answered in my worst way, imposing I have no interest in it. She being an experienced HR found me good in management stuffs and started conversing with me about it. I, who was interested in the way she took the interview really did answered thing in my own true way and got no carried away. Finally, after an hour of final interview I got selected as an management trainee that first occurred in the history of the company. I, with no guilt and with all my heart know that I deserved it and thanked the company for opening a new opportunity for young talents and minds.
But as a way of throwing all the efforts into the bin, few used the foul phrases saying “I told you, your appearance would get you a job” which never did bring me down but got myself into the wrath in the thoughts of the society. As the people needed some guidance about it, I spent a minute explaining them, ‘A woman with true spirit, attitude and desire will not be happy by the words and neither do I’, I told them. And further went a step saying ‘My interviewer was a woman’. The appreciable reply I got was ‘ She might had been paid by any male in the organization to get you selected.’ This corrupted mind will never take you far I thought and left the place looking the person incorrigibly.
This is just a small incident that happened to me and I took this as an arena to expose it to the world. Even the woman in the highest position is being discriminated by another women or men in her surrounding and been made to deteriorate the will she has because for a woman her respect is everything and she is most concerned about what the society might think of her, and prefers staying in a cubicle rather than going out and finding herself and finally her dream and self-respect is been killed.
Its time to wake up women. Its real time!
There exists no reason to your life, if you just prefer staying in a cubicle. Remember the embarrassments you face are only making you strong, they never drag you down.
So, remember my dear lady, the time has come to pull your socks up!
Listen to your inner-heart and to no morons!
Wake up! Let every dawn be your day.