That feeling of being apart from your own self might badly hurt you enormously. Sometimes all you do is just react your own way with another, which in turn collapse you as they doesn’t take things in yours, they have their own. you just start behaving your own way and then find its just your way and you cant expect people to react the same way. And later wonder and feel trembled thinking about the manner you had reacted to them.
You might have met thousands in your life, but still this remains an unanswered question. No matter how long you know each other but this still remains the most difficult question. No matter in what position you are, if you are a true bond maker you care.
The art of understanding and judging people is far beyond the common human thinking capability. Though you might feel you can’t become responsible for what had happened, it still itches you as irrespective of the days, you value them. That is why everything becomes so complicated. All you think for your dear ones is that they must never feel bad. In-spite of knowing you remain the cause for their bad feel you can’t proceed further with them. You just stay still, think, think back, and go back. I would describe that as the most pathetic moment a good friend may have.
So, try not to judge the ones, try not to think too much as that might uproot the relationship. you may have the gut feeling say “you shouldn’t have done this” respecting your instincts try approaching them again, when you value the relationship more than your ego!