You’ll come to get the answer for why you have to be all by yourself. There might come a time where you have to survive hard in the rough weather, restless world, with the zombiatic people. Where you can trust none. So better be suspicious sometime. That might help you at the worst of all.
Of all the things you can never get back, your past is what that made and make your life. When things become easy to forget, then it is easy to gain.
That feeling that has its part in the history of you – the real history that is unintentionally created.
You! You got away
– a far way
But still exists,
the place where
‘ I found me and lost you ‘
That was a time when I looked around, I rarely used to see people around me. I literally had no friends. I had a question, ‘can’t a boy and girl be good friends?’
I moved on… I was put on a different environment where I could fit with no one. I could see a flame of sympathy in all eyes.
I moved on… I got a number of friends outta which few were my besties.
I moved on… I seldom had contacts with my besties n again a different un liking environment. I had male friends most best than the female. All I saw was friendship, but all I got back was attractions n infatuations from the opposite. I again wondered “why can’t a boy and girl be friends!?” This time I didn’t even expect any friendship in return, but they expected back the same feeling, which I can never think of.
I understood, yes! A boy and a girl can be very good and close friends only if both are matured. Only if all they want back is friendship. Just friendship…
The fact is ‘people of this generation proving the belief and thoughts of their ancestral generation’
Its either total tragic or total comic if yu keep on boasting about your so called ‘FRIEND’ who doesn’t even think you as their friend. Its merely useless if you keep on supporting your relationship which don’t even exist. You just have to be abashed about such funny realtionship where only you exist. A relationship is complete only when it exists in the both side. Else its just you who cares about it, who longs for it, who waits for it. It don’t take a part in your history; its just a part of your memories.
If I would have got my space I wouldn’t have been here fighting for my rights and longing for my interest and passion. Only as the things clutch my throat I came to understand sometimes its better not to have what we always wanted. If anything comes easy and for free, the value is never recognised. Only when it is fought for, it reveals it true self in us, the desire we have for it.
I wonder.. why can’t a men see another women as his sister or friend or cousin or mother…few of the men look at a women only with sexual intention, try dominating her, always thinks a women as a weaker sex. Is a girl anywhere and anyhow lesser than a men? No way!
I don’t think so. She is equally an abled hand and brain. Sorry! I am here noway giving a comparison between the two. Comparison sucks! And I know we are equal in all aspects.
After committing the crimes, perverted idiots, I don’t understand how few men blame the victim(women) of the crime.
Its starts from the parents attitude and the way they bring up their child
“Rather than teaching your daughter how to be, teach your son how not to be.”
Both are the two sides of a coin.
There exists no meaning crying after the crime had happened. Lets start from here.
“The revolt in the attitude!”
My favorite lines of the speech “HeForShe” by Emma Watson in the UN…
“Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong. It is time that we all perceive gender on a spectrum, instead of two sets of opposing ideals. If we stop defining each other by what we are not, and start defining ourselves by who we are, we can all be freer, and this is what HeForShe is about. It’s about freedom.
I want men to take up this mantle so that their daughters, sisters, and mothers can be free from prejudice, but also so that their sons have permission to be vulnerable and human too, reclaim those parts of themselves they abandoned, and in doing so, be a more true and complete version of themselves.”
….. a must hear speech!
When life gives you hundred reason to cry, show life that you have thousand reasons to hold on and smile. People around may be selfish, selfless, arrogant, ignorant, idiotic, stupendous. I learned that repeating the same to those will never help you. It’ll just spoil what you actually are. No matter how rude people are to you, show them the goodness that you are. Never mind!!! ” YOU ARE FAIRLY GONNA RULE “
Love yourself when people feel jealous about you and start trying to dominate you… that’s the time you grow strong and they fail strong.
You grow by learning to fight, neglecting morons and never letting go of yourself. While they fail thinking that they are the everything, looking for fame always and forgetting their values.
By all means… YOU PROFIT and that’s where you show your ATTITUDE.
Not all who wander are aimless. They make a change or atleast try making a change.
~” MONALISA SMILE” 🙂